Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair,
and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;But let
it be the hidden man of the heart, in which is not corruptible. even the
ornament of a meek and quiet spirit,which is in the sight of God
of great price. -1Peter 3:3,4
When a young bride prepares for her wedding, she wants to be beautiful for the man she is about to marry. She goes to the salon to have her hair fixed and her nails manicured. Everything has to look perfect as possible for that moment when she says “I do” to her husband at the church alter.
But a day will come when her body will begin to change, when wrinkles will start to appear, and gravity will begin to move things from where they used to be! When that day comes-and it will come- the most beautiful thing you’ll have to offer your husband will not be your body but a godly, beautiful, unfading spirit. Never forget that your spirit is what will make your husband think you are beautiful to the very last day of your life!”
That’s why it’s important to remember that the most beautiful thing a wife has to offer her husband is not her body but her spirit. The good news is that when the body begins to show signs of age, the human spirit remains remarkably free from its effects. This is why Paul said,”…Though our outward man perish,yet the inward man is renewed day by day” (2 Corinthians 4:16).
You see there are many outwardly beautiful people who are inwardly wicked; therefore, their beauty is only skin deep- neither long-lasting nor impressive. Although these people spend hours adorning and grooming themselves, what is inside them is projected clear through their outer adornment. Since they are actually unkind and inwardly ugly people, their inner ugliness ruins the effect of their physical beauty and causes them to be perceived as unattractive people. The truth is, some of the meanest and most wicked, vile people in the world are physically beautiful, yet their inner attitudes cause them to be very repulsive to those around them.
As my wife JoAnn grows older, I look upon her with great respect than ever before. Honestly, I think she is physically beautiful and I am honored to be married to such an attractive woman. But what makes her most beautiful to me is not her hair, face, her figure, or her clothing. The most beautiful part of my wife JoAnn is her heart. The sweet fragrance of Jesus Christ emanates from her heart, through her attitudes, and into her words and actions, making her one of the loveliest people I’ve ever known
Because my wife has made the development and maturity of her spirit such a central force in her life, I can tell you that she continually captures my heart. Although we are getting older and our bodies are beginning to change, JoAnn is more gorgeous to me today than ever before. I know that as we grow older and older, she will only become more beautiful , because as the flesh wanes, it will only make it more possible for her dynamic heart to shine brighter!
Now Don’t get me wrong, God is not against women using cosmetics, wearing jewelry, or arraying themselves in fine clothing. But all the world’s finest jewelry and most expensive makeup and clothing cannot make a person with a ugly heart look beautiful. Whatever is in the spirit is exactly what will be seen in a person’s life.
Wife, I urge you to take heed to Peter’s plea in these verses. For the sake of both your marriage and your personal walk with God, make the decision to not only adorn your outward appearance, but also to turn your attention to the hidden man of the heart.
Our Confession For Today
I confess that my spirit is getting stronger and stronger as I get older. My inner man is adorned with godliness and grace. The older I get, the more visible my inward man becomes- and what is seen coming from within me makes me attractive, even though I am getting a little wrinkled and gravity is having its effects on my physical form. I am inwardly strong and beautiful, and this inner beauty is what attractes people to me.
I declare this by faith in Jesus name!
Have a wonderful day everyone and God bless you all!!
For God’s Glory,
Pastor Tom